Navigating the Holiday Season with That Flaky Friend: A Humorous Guide

Ah, the holidays! A time of cheer, festivities, and... dealing with that notoriously flaky friend. We all know someone who, despite their best intentions, always seems to bail on plans at the last minute. Or, let's face it, maybe you are that friend. Fear not! Here's a light-hearted guide to managing holiday plans with the flakiest of them all.

  • Set Realistic Expectations:

    If you're dealing with a serial plan-canceler, adjust your expectations. Invite them, but maybe don't hinge the entire evening on their attendance.

  • The Art of the Backup Plan:

    Always have a plan B. If they bail, it's movie night or an impromptu game evening with other friends.

  • Communicate Openly:

    If you're the flaky one, communication is key. Be honest about your commitments and likelihood of showing up.


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  • Embrace Flexibility:

    Flexibility is your best friend during the holidays. Be open to last-minute changes and go with the flow.

  • Consider Low-Commitment Gatherings:

    Opt for casual, drop-in style events where the pressure to attend is low for everyone.

  • Virtual Participation:

    Can't make it? Suggest a quick holiday greeting over video call to stay connected.

  • Humor is Your Ally:

    Remember, a sense of humor can diffuse disappointment. Joke about their 'ghosting' skills but balance it with understanding.

Whether you're dealing with or are the flaky friend, remember the holiday spirit is all about enjoying each other's company, in whatever form that takes. Keep things light, flexible, and full of cheer!


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Akeshi Akinseye

Global Luxury Event Planner & Designer. Tastemaker.

Akeshi Akinseye is the founder of Kesh Events, a global event planning and production firm known for leading refined, high-touch celebrations worldwide.

She is the author of The Art of Celebrating, a book dedicated to meaningful gatherings, thoughtful design, and the rituals that bring people together. Through her work, Akeshi explores celebration as both an experience and a philosophy—rooted in intention, culture, and care.

Her perspective has been featured in The New York Times, Forbes, Brides, People, and other leading publications.

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